What are her intensions?

My colleague is a friend of my husband. They even dated for a while in college, but now they are just very good friends. She is good to me but is often talking about my husband and comparing him to her husband. Her comments are like…my husband did this today and drove me crazy but I bet your husband doesn’t do that. He is so sweet and sensitive unlike mine. I wish I had married him. You are so lucky.


If it was just one comment..it would have been fine but everyday from morning till evening, it just drives me nuts.


When I shared this with my husband, he seems to enjoy that and tells me that it is not a big deal.Also when she comes over ...she does it again.


I recently stopped sharing that with him. But her comments have gone to some more personal/private note. It is just making me more uncomfortable and mad. I don’t want to be too rude since I have to work with her and at the same time I want to end this.I am not sure why she is always telling me this.


What do I do? Any thoughts??

What are her intensions?
You're not dumb, no matter what the first few people said.





It could be that she's jealous. Women often compete with each other and she feels she's losing. She wants you to say, "No, my husband is bad, too. He did (blahblah)," so she can feel better about the decision she made. Or compliment her husband a lot and say you'd totally do him.





See what happens.
Reply:When you speak with her try and have an agreement that you don't talk about each others husbands. Let her know that you feel uncomfortable. Then go on as normal. Also invite her husband to come with his wife to your house. This way she may behave. Don't be surprised if your friendship with her is short lived. Btw, sharing things about her with your husband only plays to build his ego. Anyway, Good luck.
Reply:Are you serious. After the first sentence I already knew where this was going. You need to stand up and tell that dumb ***** that she must be crazy to sit there are tell you that **** about your husband. Tell her that she has crossed the line and you do not appreciate it. Ooh I could just see me now cursing her *** out.
Reply:If nothing is going on she is being overly nice. If there is something going on they will tell you if you ask.
Reply:Do you need a piano or a cartoon safe dropped on your head?





Honestly, what's it going to take?








Think reeeeeeeeeeeal hard.