Saturday, November 14, 2009

38 Weeks...Irritating...?

Ok, so most, if not all of my pregnancy I have been very distant towards the father of my baby. It's like I have now noticed how irritating he is....not to mention, everything (literally, EVERYTHING) he does bothers me. It has almost gotten to the point to where I do not even want to be in the same room as him. I can not tell if this is actually how I feel, or if it is just the pregnancy. I have tried explaining this to him, but all I seem to get is.."you don't love me anymore...you don't want to be with me...is there someone else..?" It's driving me nuts. He, to me, seems super controlling...


I have a 5 year old and his father is not around, and (as crazy as this seems) I feel lucky he is not. There is less drama, and it's a more stable environment for my child.


Am I crazy, or is anyone else having/ gone through this?


We were together a year before getting pregnant, and I just feel like I have to be protective over my child..(I feel very possessive). Ohh gosh, I must sound insane.

38 Weeks...Irritating...?
I think you are very very hormonal but you will be just fine. All women go through it in their own way . Just ignore him, lol. And I don't think you are crazy about the 5 year old's father, I would have given anything for my ex to disappear when my daughter was born.
Reply:hi hun no your not crazy or on your own im 38 weeks preg i already got 3 boys and im havin girl this time,i been with my hubbie 12 years and i never felt like this before he only has to sit in the same room as me i feel like killing him despite the fact hes a great dad ,hubbie and very good looking .poor thing does everything 4 me but even after a 12 hour shift he does i have to send him 2 his mothers .its def hormones so plz hang in there you will feel different in a few weeks.also do you know the sex of your baby i got told that cause im havin a girl its the extra female hormones not sure but i was never like this on the boys,good luck
Reply:I went through the same thing, and now that my baby is here we couldn't be anymore happier. its Just the pregnant thing, it will go away
Reply:Nope ou sound like a hormonal pregnant women! Hang in there you only have 2 weeks to go. I am pretty sure its your hormones.








Congrats and good luck
Reply:I would not make any big decisions right now. You know that your hormones are off balance.


Just try to relax and hang in there until the baby is born.
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Reply:i was the same way its emotions acting up it will be okay it happens
Reply:It is your pregnancy hormones flying around. You are not insane! I have been feeling crazy myself with emotions,anxiety, etc.. but am told it is just the hormones.


Try talking to your boyfriend and tell him you can't help the way you are feeling, but right now you just can't be loving with him. You will be fine after the baby comes. I think alot of pregnant women go through these emotions. I am just the opposite with my husband right now. Normally I am not clingy (when I'm not pregnant) but lately I cry when he goes to work??!!!


Keep your head up, and your emotions will work themselves out after the baby.


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