Relationship 9-1-1 !!! Please help me girls (guys welcome also). :(?

Okay so my fiance is two and a half years younger than me. I didn't think it would be this big of a difference in maturity. We're in love. We're high school sweethearts. But he still needs to be "raised" so to speak. I'm going nuts. His parents had no idea what they were doing when they were raising him. They are actually lucky he turned out as good as he did. He thinks he's right all the time when in all actually he isn't. And he's rebelling like a teenager. How the hell do I get through this? How can I teach him right from wrong? His morals are not so great. He needs to grow up and learn so much. I cant even begin to explain all this crap and how i feel. Please help... Please. I feel like crap. I'm struggling with depression. And all his mistakes are hurting me, and he's not learning fast enough! And he cant seem to learn without making the mistakes.... Eh. When we he realize I'm right? I feel like a mom...

Relationship 9-1-1 !!! Please help me girls (guys welcome also). :(?
Im gonna give you the short answer. If your not happy then its not worth it. You should be the most important thing and you shouldnt have to tell him how to grow up. Because if he can man up enough to realize he has somebody so caring then he is dumb.
Reply:be ready to accept him for who he is and not who you want him to be. he may never change his behavior no matter how hard you try.





Get ready to make decisions that are good for you, no matter what the costs.
Reply:Simply put, you don't really love him. You love your idea of what he could be. I've had this problem before with a lot of chicks, I would think man, if she just loses weight, or quits smoking, or drinking, or starts speaking with more distinction or blah blah blah, when I realize, they don't they arent, that isnt them, I need to move on if its unacceptable. If its ok though, then I need to shut up because I am not perfect either!!!!!
Reply:fiancee, high school dont go together, yeah put him in a special school or just leave but keep close contact
Reply:You should try to talk to him. Calm him down and explain your opinions. Try not to be like an older person talking to a younger one. And listen to him also. Hear out his reasons. Try to casually talk about it.
Reply:Just give him some time to mature. Maybe just say im going away for a week because im getting really stressed. Give him some time to think about what hes doing and he might realize he's isn't always right and that relationships involve two people putting in not just one.
Reply:train him like a dog...say right is good and wrong is bad...common sense
Reply:You should worry about your own morals before other people's morals.





The fact that you think you have the right to manipulate and control this man makes me sick in my own scorn.





Why don't you try having an honest discussion with him, instead of being manipulative and getting frustrated with your failures. At least if you approach him honestly, you'll both know that neither of you are ready to get married.