Is my husband allergic to me...?

my husband and i have been married for almost a year (2 weeks till our year) been together for 2 years... we have a son ( 9 months old). ok so i think my husband is allergic to me because he doesnt kiss me we dont have sex, i feel like his roommate or something. i always try to get him to kiss me or have sex with me or do anything with me but he doesnt im begining to lose all confidence in myself. we have sex about once every 2 months if im lucky im lucky if i get a kiss.. its more of a peck.. and its driving me nuts.. i talk to him and ask him what i can do and he always says sorry and says he'l try and work on it but no change and i tell him its really affecting me i cant help but cry and feel so sad. and the thing is that he is 21 so you would think his sex drive would be up there but no its not im 25 and im like willing to go anytime anywhere.. i know its usually opposite i feel like the guy sometimes. i try everything but then he says hes tired as he sits on the couch.what to do

Is my husband allergic to me...?
Whatever you are doing now, stop. If you are very aggressive be more passive and vice verse. He may have things on his mind and honestly have a child and being married at 21 is tough on anyone. Also, he may be cheating, but dont assume anything, you need to have evidence that he is because if u confront him without it he will deny it and be even more stand offish
Reply:if i were you i'd be asking some questions or some checking up on him it sounds like he not being completely faithful to you
Reply:well i hate to say this but it doesnt sound like he is allergic to you, it sounds like he's messing around. You need to do some research and see if he 's cheating on you or something. Those are obvious signs. Not kissing you, or wanting to have sex with you at such a young age probably means that he's getting it somewhere else. I hope i'm wrong but check up on it.
Reply:He is not allergic to you....he is cheating on you.





My ex husband did the exact same thing and now he is with his secretary.