How do i tell him I just cant take it anymore?!?

k so im sure alot of you have seen my gazilion relationship problem questions well now im just done


I love my bf dearly but something has got to change. We have been dating for a year and he makes me so so happy but some of the things he does drives me NUTS like telling me i cant have guy friends or getting mad when i wear makeup, i mean he is perfect and funny and sweet and romantic and he so faithful and tells me how lucky he is every day to have me but if something doesnt change i cannot be with him, i need my friends and my life back.....do you think we should break up or do you know maybe a different way of going about this?

How do i tell him I just cant take it anymore?!?
He sounds controlling. You should break up with him before he decides that he can hit you.
Reply:Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel, but don't be rude about it either. Talk to him in a humble tone, that way he knows you aren't trying to be demanding or mean. Try one thing at a time, like makeup first, and then your friends a little later. If you ask too much at once, he'll likely say no and then you'll become upset and angry. If he doesn't listen, give him some alone time and have some fun. If it's right, you two will come back to each other, if not. You won't.
Reply:ok this are not good signs... i don't know if you know but it's showing that he is starting to get possessive and wanting to shut you out of everyones life but his. Then things get worse if you let him do it. Talk to him today sit down together tell him your serious...if he doesen't change your going to have to move on... tell him you love him but you have to have a life. he might want to get help too
Reply:You cannot live a long-term relationship if he doesnt trust you,


here is an interesting site:





10 Crucial and Surprising Steps to Build Trust in a Relationship





http://ezinearticles.com/?10-Crucial-and...





hope that will help, good luck with everything :)
Reply:this is the way he is you dated him know this now you want to change him thats not right accept it or get rid of him you have no right to force him to change
Reply:Just remember that all those little things that drive you crazy when you are dating are going to become really huge things when you are locked in.





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Reply:give him a mission statement .telling him what it is about him'


you dislike .and let him take it from there .
Reply:ya give him to me
Reply:tell him that he has to let you have friends and stuff or youll leave him!
Reply:I'm glad you noticed it's going in the wrong direction.





There are always ways you can turn the right way again, but that involved a lot of effort from both people. He would have to change his life to overcome this controlling addiction he has on you. It's very hard to change one's lifestyle for another. Do you really think he can do it?





Just remember, he is not irreplaceable. There are other guys out there who are also funny sweet and romantic, and BONUS will let you be friends with whoever you want, wear makeup, and won't freak out whenever you guys go out.





It sounds like one of those relationships with the ego-tripping boyfriend who starts out by thinking he can control you and ends up being one who abuses his girlfriend. You.





Think . . . don't you want to be free? Free to look for a new guy? One that's even better? It could definably happen! Or mabey just stay single? You can't possibly be happy in a relationship that you have to struggle through every day! From previous questions, I've learned he makes you feel "less than perfect" and restricted.





There will be others. Don't be afraid to leave because your scared of anything. Once everything is out in the open, nothing is too scary at all. I believe you can do it! For your sake.





Remember to follow your heart at all times. If you feel doubt about something, take yourself away from the situation. You will never regret it!





Even if you end up regreting it (which I don't think you will), you can always go back! Better you leave then be able to go back, then be stuck in something never knowing what it would be like to leave.





He might do something that will make you not want to leave, but you have to remember to make the RIGHT decision. Not the one that feels good.





The question isn't HOW to tell him you can't take it anymore. The question is when! I have an answer -- NOW!
Reply:You should break it off with him. He is really sprung and he gives you everything you need. Women dont want everything handed to them. The makeup thing is crazy. But the girls with all these guy friends and they think there man is supposed to sit back and be cool and go let them hang out with there guyfriend. Well 9 times out of 10 the guy has a click of friends. So you go out with all these guys eventually after time you will be attracted to one and leave the guy you are with. I have alot of girl friends but im attracted to 75% of them and I think if we were ever alone that something would happen. Eventually you will have that chance and you will make a mistake. In fact I have seen it happen more than 15 times that I can remember. Its just that your man is old and repetitive. These new guys coming around that are new and fun your gonna be attracted. Pretty much women start shopping for a new man 5 months before they break up. You really should break it off with him. He sounds really jealous and you will never be happy. Eventually his jealousy will make you so mad. That you will go find something for the night. But in the long run you will feel guilty. Also you will hurt him. Everyone is intitled to there own fun. Nobody should be held back do what you want to do. But in a serious relationship you cant go hanging out with the opposite sex its just a respect facture. Atleast not with out your boyfriend.