Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Im thinking bout running away?

im only 13 and ive tried running away three times. the first two times, i got caught, and the third time, i got away, but went back home cause i was with my dog, who i wouldnt have enough money to buy food for. so im seriously going crazy. my family is driving me nuts, especially my mom. my sister is lucky cause she lives in a different state. but anyway. my mom has crossed the line. last nite she caused me to cry for two hours straight and i finally fell asleep cause i cried so much. this morning i was feeling beyond depressed(btw. my dad thinks im depressed). i have many problems but im not talking bout it on yahoo. so i have found out everything i need to know for running away to where my sister lives. i want to live with her. shes 26, so i think she can be my gaurdian. i already have all the information i need. and i have the money. but i told one of my closest friends and she thinks im out of my mind.


so i need opinions from strangers. someone please help me.

Im thinking bout running away?
Call your sister first. If you think she can be you guardian and help you, you should be able to call her and tell her everything that is wrong and ask her if you can live with her.


You don't want to run away and then something goes wrong and you appear on the news. "Another teen rape murder". Anyway, she is your mom, try to talk to her and get things straight. I know you want to talk to somebody but don't now who. I have the same feeling. Except that you have a 26 year old sister that can listen to you without nagging. And trust me, this will pass. Do not run away.
Reply:if you cannot stay at home then you need to speak up and try for some arrangement that will let you stay with your sister. If there is a problem like abuse your sister can petition the courts on your behalf.





What seems to be going on is that you are a typical 13 year old with the normal parent problems of a 13 year old. You need to grow up and not run away. Your parents are trying very hard to raise you and you are making things harder Your problems are not really problems as you will discover is you succeed in really running away. There are very dangerous people out there just waiting for fresh little chickens like you to come running by. They will roast your little butt for you and you will pray for the "problems" your parents are casuing you.





You need to thank God that you have parents that care enough about you to not let you have your own way. Stop crying and start praying thanks for your blessings.
Reply:Again talk to your sister, before you do Anything'' that way she will help you and ask your parents, if you could live with her a little while
Reply:Call the runaway hot line. Call first call for help.


You are not old enough to take on the dangers of being alone, on your own. You may think you're all grown up and tough, but you should not have to feel so abandoned in this world. People who are homeless, some of them started out just like that...


Is it really the only option you have? Maybe your mom is the one with a bigger problem. But at this age, you need guidance from a counselor, pastor, or somebody qualified to do so.


I'll say a prayer or twelve for you. May God keep you safe.


You need to realize also, that you need court documents for your sister to be your legal guardian. And that takes time as well.
Reply:Running Away is not the correct path you should choose. If you are really having problems with your family you should talk to another adult you trust (A teacher, a grandparent, a neighbor, a friends mom, ect.) they can help with how your parents can change or getting you to your sister in a safer way than you going yourself. If you feel comfortable, talk to your parent maybe they are stressed or they are having a hard time. Just do what you think is more reasonable and don't get hurt.
Reply:Why is your mom driving you nuts? At the age of 13 you think you know everything,you dont turst me.Unless your being abused,go to school and deal with it. If you think its hard now you have no idea what the real world is like.
Reply:Well first call your sister and ask if she can be your gauriden. If she says yes tell your parents and then start running as fast as you can girl. I did this before too.Now I still live with my sister. she is the best guairden. But remember you will be meeting new friends. going to new schools. and much more!
Reply:Dont Run Away!! You Will Regret It!.. Get Your Sister To Come OVer One Weekend And Sit Her And Your PArents Together.. Tell Them All How You Feel. I Am Sure Your Mom Will Be Heartbroken! Im Sure There Is A Way To Resolve This Problem And I Think If You Really Cannot Stand Living There Anymore Ring Your Sister And Ask Her If You Can Come And Stay For A While.. Maybe In Easter Or Any Other School Holiday In America.. I Live In The U.K So Its Different Here.. Anyway.. Are You Sure That You Are Not Over Reacting? I have arguments with my mom all the time and i am always sayin i hate you and i wanna run away from home.. please dont though you will regret it! and you are endangering yourself! Please sit down with your parents and sister and sort this out!.. Maybe you and your mum need counselling??


Hope I Helped You.


Good Luck!


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