Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Ok, he's a text tease & its driving me nuts!?

I have only been with him for a few months (since Jan). I am 26 he is 29. We both hate talking on the phone. So we text most of the time or talk on yahoo. Okay so its like this, he works ENTIRELY too much and when he is not working he is taking care of his mother, his sister ( who both have med probs) or tinkering on one of many projects he has lined up from now until christmas of next year! If I am lucky we get to see each other 2 nights a week and at times I have gone without seeing him 2 weeks at a time.Now I realize he's a busy man. He had a life before me %26amp; shouldn't have to change his entire life to suit me. And I try not to be the pushy girlfriend always cryin about him not spending time her. what makes me crazy is the fact that he'll text me ALOT and then nothing at all I send him a text message around 10 am w/ the good news that I got accepted into Nursing school and didn't get a response back from him till 9pm and even that was weird. All he sent back was: Kisses?

Ok, he's a text tease %26amp; its driving me nuts!?
he has a lot of issues so just give yourself a break...
Reply:Well, how about moving in with him, so you can show how much you care, and at the same time, you will understand how busy he is?





It's either you follow his lifestyle, or talking things out. You don't have to be a pushy gf, but tell him: you need to balance your work, family, and love. See what he says.
Reply:Scarlett, there is something not right here....can't put my finger on it at the moment. But why is he not making more time for you? Why the on/off txting? Why does he not rejoice in your success in getting accepted into nursing school? Something is just not right here. Proceed with caution.
Reply:So? After about 90 days of dating, you realize you're not important enough to him to make time for.


He's too busy for you, he's too busy to see you, he's too busy to keep in touch.


Why waste your time? He's really not that into you.
Reply:he might be with someone else.... or he didnt reply to u because he was busy... what do u expect from this relationship? and tell him wha he expects and go on from there
Reply:maybe he is not ready and committed enough to have a girlfriend.


you might want to consider taking a break.
Reply:must be nice........

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