Why do people try to convince u that they are trustworthy?

I met this guy online and I've told him how I feel about men in general. In a nut shell, 95% of men are no good, the good ones are almost taken or gay. Now this guy is 34 and single and I kept asking myself why? If u are such a good man then why hasn't some lucky woman scooped u up yet. There are about 45% good women in the world. This guy has a body to die for and gorgeous eyes. That should have clued me in right then that he is just on the net to see how many females he can use to boost his ego. Anyway he convinced me that he was a good man looking for a good woman but yesterday I stumbled across a website that he frequently uses and he has changed his single status to relationship status. WTF?! I haven't talked to him yet. I just feel a little betrayed off the simple fact that he could have told me he was seriously seeing someone instead acting like he was interested in me. As a woman how would you feel and as a man why would he do something like that?

Why do people try to convince u that they are trustworthy?
Guys are troglodytes till they reach 65...then they are old troglodytes...if you don't know what a troglodyte is...go to Google and look it up
Reply:Girl I smell a Rat! Run like hell!
Reply:Be really careful with good looking people you might meet online, or through MySpace, dating website, etc., especially if they change their availability status, preference for having children, interests, etc. There are a TON of Nigerian scammers out there who steal people's pictures (sometimes from right off of a modeling website) and then contact you, gain your trust, and then ask for money. In the past 6 months, we have caught 5 of these people, both male and female, at work. Who initiated the first contact between you? If it was him, be really, really careful. Some of these scammers work for months and months to gain your confidence. Of course, it may not be a scammer at all, just a jerk, but I'd almost rather think he's a scammer. Be very careful - I hope you find happiness with someone great!
Reply:Actions speak louder than words!! Keep looking!
Reply:you seem leary of alot. were you purposely looking for a guy online,if so why? wouldn't a bar or park or grocery store be


a little more sensible? theres no mention of your age either?


with your opinion of men stated,answer me this, why are YOU still looking if you are so good? personally i don't give a ****


what you think of me,as a guy,as a person. those who give respect get respect is how i am. maybe you should be more direct and to the point with your questioins with guys next time.
Reply:Try meeting people in the flesh, they are less likely to lie.Anyway how do you know the person he's planning on a relationship with is n't you? as you say you have n't spoken to him about it yet.
Reply:People only try to convince you that they are trustworthy when they are trying to swindle or take advantage of you. A person who is truly trustworthy doesn't have to try to get you to trust them. They are honest about their strengths, weaknesses and failures as well as successes. A truly trustworthly person can probably even talk about why they are still single. I mean there are alot of single older guys out there who are diamonds in the rough who haven't been snapped up because for instance - they are still living with mother and going out with her on a weekly basis and mowing her lawn in exchange for laundry services and home cooked meals 3x per day. A truly trustworthy person isn't going to get thrown for a loop if you suggest this could be the reason why they are still single and a truly trustworthy man won't get extremely offended if you feel that they have a big ego. You might also start by recognizing that the very fact that a man is looking for a woman on the internet might tell you that one of the reasons that he's not married is that he is a player and dishonest or has some personal issues with talking with people in person or poor self esteem that causes them to look on the internet rather than get involved in social groups where they can meet single women in person. The truly trustworthy guy will be the one who puts his real albeit not model - photo out there for people to see him like he is. How do you really know what he looks like? Maybe he's already married as well. I'd rather meet a man who put a totally fat and ugly picture on line and then meeting him in person - he was a stud. That would be testing your character and show that he's looking for honesty which is a higher value than looks which would be preferrable to me over being let down by meeting a guy who is not as good looking as he said or appeared on a photo.
Reply:I don,t know!!!

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